Today marks the 10th anniversary of the death of Aaliyah. Celebs have been flooding the internet offering their memories of the late singer, including Missy Elliot, one of Aaliyah’s best friends and collaborators. The rapper/producer/singer extraordinaire shared her thoughts on the singer via an CNN Entertainment blog post:
Today is the 10 year anniversary of Aaliyah’s passing and I’m sitting here reminiscing and playing music, thinking of the times we spent together, working, laughing, singing, dancing, cutting up. But really, it’s not all that different from any other day because I do think about her every day.
Not on purpose, but she is my friend and that’s just how I do. I’ve told the same stories for 9 years—how we met, how me and Tim were scared but Aaliyah was so welcoming and had this smile and way about her that put us at ease, that she liked to take chances and we were able to just be who we were and make good records together.
She loved playing jokes and that’s another part of her personality that made it fun to be around her. As a talent, I think she’s missed because she was unique and a true triple threat. She could sing, dance, and her acting was starting to take off.
I’m glad for the memories I have and the time we got to spend together, but I miss my friend.
Rest In Peace and Power Baby Girl.
Rest in peace, indeed.
Billboard.com is commemorating the 10 year anniversary of the passing of R&B singer Aaliyah by asking 12 female artists to describe how the One in a Million singer affected music and their careers. Check out their responses below:
“She was true to who she was and she didn’t seem to care about it. The core of her art to me is heavily, heavily urban based. When an artist’s music is so urban based, sometimes people like to take risks with artists like that. When you think about it, it really is pop, it really is cultural and that’s the one thing that I thought was cool about her music. It never felt like she was trying to reach across or do anything more than just keep that cool, soulful, heavy urban core about it. It wasn’t like she was trying to be anything more than who she was. I really respect that and I appreciate that.”
“She was to me more than an artist. I feel like she was a legend in her own right. What Timbaland, Missy [Elliott] and that whole crew did for music was just something that is highly missed right now. I loved her more not only as an artist but as a dancer. I felt like she was one of the few that when her videos or songs came on I would literally sit and watch the entire video to learn each step that she did because I felt like it was something that everybody wanted to learn. She just captured you.I felt like Aaliyah was her. It was as real as it could possibly be. I take that with me everytime I do anything because being in this industry, they don’t accept you and when you’re different they don’t always go for it and she just did not take that as an answer. Because of that, she was massive. She would have been still if she would have still been here.”
“Her purity of voice was incredible. She didn’t try too hard or do any tricks. That’s something I liked about her.When she was singing, she let it fall out of her. With her it was addicting. Her vocals and style is what had her stand out above and beyond everyone. When I listen to her voice now, I think, ‘She was killing it. She was a beast.’”
“She wasn’t trying hard to be anything more than what she was and she accepted how she delivered herself, her genuine self to people. I pray I have a mini percent of what she had and the fans that she had and has. They ain’t gone. They still there.I think Aaliyah made every girl write a ‘Four Page Letter.’ It was okay to write a bunch of words to a guy. Now, you’d be like, ‘You’d better not write him no four page letter or he’ll think you’re a stalker.’ But she was like ‘I’m writing you a four page letter, bastard.’”
“My manager’s best friend, Gina Smith, was on the plane with Aaliyah and passed away as well. The fact that it has been 10 years is wild to me. I feel Aaliyah’s presence and influence quite heavily. She accomplished so much at a young age and paved the way for artists like myself. If it were not for what she had trail blazed, I would probably not have been afforded certain opportunities. She really proved that ‘Age Aint Nothing But A Number,’ and that as young people, we are allowed to have personalities and opinions and voices and make an impact.Her vocal delivery was unique. The combination of her angelic vocals over harder-hitting production was so special. She set trends through fashion, music, and the atmosphere that she created. Even before Beyoncé, she had music, fashion, and acting on lock. She and her team (including Jomo Hankerson, who I work closely with) helped show us that there are no boundaries in entertainment.”
“My cousin was signed to Roc-A-Fella [when] her [Aaliyah] and Dame Dash was actually at the time dating. They were really close and everything. We would all used to come and hang out [at Roc-A-Fella]. She definitely gave me hope that, “Oh my God, I have a chance to be where she is. She’s really knocking down barriers right now. I have that opportunity.Aaliyah’s death, and even her presence, showed me as an artist to be humble because people that come across your path are going to remember you for years to come even if it was one time meeting. [She was] somebody so humble, so talented, and somebody who was so cutting edge, doing what we, artists right now in 2011, are doing.”
“The first time I met her, she was extremely quiet. You [weren’t] going to get a lot of words out of Aaliyah in a first meeting. It takes a lot of time for her to warm up to people overall because she had this shyness. I remember her being shocked at things I would say out loud, whether it was in interviews or when we were hanging out. She would always be gasping for air at some of the things that I would say out loud. Whenever I was around, if I saw something, whatever it was, she would just be in shock like, ‘I can’t believe you just said that out loud.’I think it’s good for people to know the side of her outside of the music and know that her music was a great reflection of her. Sometimes people are totally different than the image they represent, but what I love about her is that everything that you saw was really her. When the lights and the cameras were off, that same pleasant, mild mannered, sweet personality, that’s just how she was. She loved to laugh. Jokes with her and Missy [Elliott] were beyond what people imagine. Missy is definitely the ultimate jokester. I’ve never seen her in the type of turmoil and pain that she was in after Aaliyah passed because there’s no replacing the type of love and friendship that her and Missy had. It was the type of closeness where even when I see Missy today I always feel like something is missing from her and that is definitely Aaliyah.”
“I could see so much of myself in her because she had this tomboy, tough-girl image but at the same time she was very soft and feminine. Her vocals were very light but at the same time her lyrics were so engaging. They always touch your soul. Aaliyah just had this magic combination, everything that most women aspire to be, that softness but still strength. The way that she lost her life, it was shocking. It almost feels like it would only be something like that that could take someone like Aaliyah away from us because she was so strong.”
“We actually had a chance to hang out with Aaliyah after a show in Japan back in 1996. Aaliyah came to see one of our shows while out there promoting her album. She also came by to the hotel after the show to hang out. She was sweet, warm, very friendly, and just a down to earth person. Aaliyah was such an incredible talent. Her death was such a shock to all of us but we know her music will forever live on! Her voice is definitely missed!”
“I think she was just finding herself when she died. She was just coming into her own. She wasn’t like this young girl anymore. She was a woman. She was finding herself and she died right when she was reaching the top. Aaliyah had this really soft voice. It was soft but strong. And she was beautiful. You just wanted to be her, she was so likeable. The guys probably wanted to be with her her and the girls wanted to be like her. I think “Rock The Boat” was very revolutionary for when it came out because that song was such a mood song, it was so real. It was like she was riding a rhythm and a beat. It was like an old school Motown song, you could break it down. I don’t think people make music like that anymore, it’s so inspiring.”
“When I found out that she [had] past that night, I just cried [while] on the tour bus. That’s amazing for someone to have that affect on other people’s lives.I think why it affected me so much without me knowing her is because she seemed to have a beautiful soul. [There was] something about her spirit. She connected before reality TV, before any of that happened in our era. It was something about her that made you connect to her. She seemed like she had a beautiful soul.”
“I loved seeing her on MTV Diary when she was playing around with her hair and makeup people. They were just having fun, laughing and trying on wigs. It showed she didn’t take herself too seriously, she had fun. Every girl in my school and every sexually confused young man knew the choreography to “Are You That Somebody” after like the third time they had seen the video. It went that hard. The long skirt with the two slits became the thing. “Are You That Somebody” is a big one for me, the whole era was amazing for me.”
It’s been 10 years since we lost one of the most beautiful, influential and warm-hearted artists this music world has ever seen. To celebrate her life and remember all of her achievements BET will be airing a special entitled “Aaliyah: One In A Million”. Close friends and admirers to the singer such as Missy Elliott, Timbaland, Patti Labelle and Kelly Rowland will speak during the special.
The special is in conjunction with the networks “25 Days Of Aaliyah” and will air Aug. 25th at 8pm.
B.E.T announced through their Twitter this morning that the network would be airing a tribute to the beautiful Aaliyah, who died almost 10 years ago in a fatal plane crash. Very few details have been given about the T.V special, but I’m sure all of Aaliyah’s fans (including me) will be tuning in.
“W/ the 10th anniv of Aaliyah’s passing approaching, we’re airing Romeo Must Die today at 8P/7C. Stay tuned for a tribute special next month!” –B.E.T Twitter
At the time of her death, Aaliyah had just released her third album, shot two new videos (“We Need A Resolution” “Rock the Boat”), and co-starred in the film Queen of the Damned.
What’s your favorite Aaliyah song?
Cassie has had her faults and down falls in the music industry but she’s ready to make a name for herself besides being Diddy’s jump. She recently came out to talk about her newest album Electro Love with Nylon magazine were she compares its sound to Gwen Stefani meets Aaliyah.
On her album:
“It’s a cool blend of pop, hip-hop, and ska. It’s urban Gwen Stefani meets Aaliyah. I hate referencing people but if you had to compare, that’s it.”
Favorite song on Electro Love:
“‘Lonely Disco Ball’” which is about the end of the night when the party is done and everybody has left.”
“It’s pretty unattainable, but I would love to work with Prince.”
On considering herself more of a musician or a model:
“Musician because I love being creative and letting myself be emotional in that moment.”
That’s a big shoe to fill. Without hearing any of her new music, I’m going to keep my comments to myself. Do you think Cassie can measure up!!??